Assalamu alaikum bhai o apnara shobai. Ami ekjon doctor, Mohammadpur e thaki ar kaj kori. Ajke ektu personal ekta bishoy niye kotha bolte chai - shomporker tips. Dekhen, medical profession e thaka mane onek stress ar time er obhab. Kintu tahole ki shomporko thakbe na? Na bhai, shomporko thakbe, tobe bujhe shune cholte hobe. Ami nijeo married, alhamdulillah 6 bochor holo, ar ei journey te onek kichu shikhechi je share korte chai apnader shathe.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Apnara hoyto bhaben je "amar partner to bujhei jai ki chai". Bhai eta bhul dharna. Kono manush mind reader na. Apnake clear bhabe bolte hobe ki apni chan, ki apnar problem. Ami hospital theke tired hoye ashi, mone mone chai ektu shanti. Kintu wife ke na bole boshe thakle misunderstanding hobe na? Tai ekdin theke decide korlam je khola mone kotha bolbo. Eta ekta game changer chilo amader jonno.
Dwitio bishoy holo respect ar space. Dekhen bhai, biye mane eta na je apni ar apnar partner ek hoy gelen. Dui jon dui ta alada manush, alada personality, alada interest. Amar wife Daraz e shopping korte bhalobashe, ami patient dekhte busy thaki. Kintu amra ekjonke arekjon er space dei. Eta onek important. Grameenphone er ad er moto "stay connected" thakun, kintu suffocate koiren na.
Tritio ar onek ghurutopurno bishoy holo patience. Inshallah shomporko bhalo hobe, kintu raat din e hobe na. Amader prothom 2 bochor onek jhogra hoyeche, choto choto bishoy niye. Biriyani te noon kom diyeche, ei niye jhogra! Kintu dheere dheere bujhlam je ego ke choto korte hobe. Sorry bolte shikhun bhai, eta weakness na, eta strength. Amar baba amake bolten, "shomporko gach er moto, pani dite hobe, roddur dite hobe, tokhon i boro hobe". Eta shotti kotha.
Shesh e boli, perfect shomporko bole kichu nai. Apni ar ami shobai imperfect manush. Kintu effort dile, honest thakle, ar respect korle - inshallah shob thik hoye jabe. Ekta kotha mone rakhben, biye ba shomporko marathon, sprint na. Dhire dhire cholun, eksha ke bujhun. Apnader kono question thakle comment e janan, try korbo help korte. Bhalo thakben shobai!
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