Assalamu Alaikum bhaira, apnara kemon achen? Aaj ekta important bishoy niye kotha bolte chai. Dekhun, ami government job kori Bonani te, ar married life o chole jacche alhamdulillah. Kintu relationship bhalo rakhte giye onek kichu shikhte hoiche nijeke. Tai vablam apnader sathe share kori, hoyto karo kaje lagbe.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Amar bou er sathe prothom dike onek misunderstanding hoto, karon ami office theke fire chup chap thaktam. Pore bujhlam je din er shesh e kichu kotha bola dorkar, even jodi choto choto kotha o hoy. Apni din e ki korlen, office e ki holo, egulo share korle relationship e ekta bonding thake. Grameenphone er call rate akhon to kom, tai phone e o kotha bolte paren jodi busy thaken. Kintu face to face kotha bolar kono bikalpo nai bhai.
Dwitio bishoy holo respect ar trust. Dekhun, amra Bangladeshi manush, amader culture e family value onek important. Apnar partner er family ke shomman korben, tader kotha shunben. Amar shashuri er sathe prothom dike ektu adjust korte koshto hoiche, kintu patience dhorle shob thik hoye jay. Ar trust er bishoy e bolte gele, unnecessary jealousy kono kaje ashe na. Apnar partner Facebook e kar sathe kotha bolche egulo niye protidin jhogra korben na. Bhalobasha thakle trust o thakbe inshallah.
Tritio important bishoy holo quality time. Ami jani amra shobai busy, job ache, family ache, onek responsibility. Kintu month e ekbar holo o baire ghurte jaben. Dhanmondi lake e ektu walk korte paren, ba Gulshan er kono restaurant e dinner korte paren. Boro kono plan na hole o cholbe, choto choto moment gulo celebrate korun. Amar bou ke ami majhe majhe surprise e fuchka khaite niye jai, oi simple jinish tai oder kache onek value rakhe.
Shesh kotha holo, shomporkho e perfection bolte kichu nai. Jhogra hobe, mone koshto paben, egulo normal. Kintu important holo problem solve korar attitude. Ego ke dure rakhben, bhul hole sorry bolte shikhben. Ami nijeo onek bhul korechi, kintu shikhte hoiche. Relationship ekta continuous effort bhai, ekbar biye hoye gele shob automatic hobe na. Duijon ke milei kaj korte hobe. Apnader karo kichu add korar thakle comment e bolben, amra shobai to ekta community, eki nauka te achi. Bhalo thakben shobai.
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