Assalamu Alaikum sobai ke. Ami Brahmanbaria theke, BCS er preparation nicchi last 2 years dhore. Amar boyosh ekhon 27, ar family theke biye er pressure ta din din bere jacche. Maa protidin phone kore bolen, "baba, ar koto din? Tomar baba o eto chinta kore." Bujhte parchi tader tension, kintu ami nijeo confused je ekhon biye kora thik hobe ki na.
Amader society te dekha jay, chele 27-28 hole family ra biye niye pagol hoye jay. Ar ami to BCS candidate, tao abar chakri hoyni ekhono. Eta ekta boro issue. Karon ami jani, biye korle responsibility bere jabe, khoroch bere jabe, ar preparation e time komte pare. Abar ulto dike, baba maa bolen je bhalo patro hole pore paowa jabe na, ar boyosh bere gele meye paowar problem hobe. Tader kotha o to bhul na completely.
Amar ek senior chilo, she BCS preparation er majhei biye korlo. Prothom 6 mash onek koshto hoye gechilo tar, biye er por adjust korte, shoshur barir responsibility nite. Kintu tar wife onek supportive chilo, inshallah bolte hoy. Wife nijeo chakri korto, ar bujhto je BCS preparation e time lagbe. Ekhon se PSC te qualify koreche, alhamdulillah. Ar arek bhai chilo, tar wife bujhto na keno shara din boi niye boshe thake, jhogra lagei thakto. Shesh e divorce porjonto gelo beparta. Tai bujhte parchi, partner selection ta onek important.
Ami nijeo ekta meye ke bhalo bashi, amra 3 years dhore kothা boli. She amake bujhe, amar struggle bujhe. Kintu tar family o pressure dichhe, ar ami commitment dite parchi na chakri chara. Eta niye amader majhe maje misunderstanding hoy. Ami chai je BCS clear kore biye korbo, kintu life to eivabe plan moto cholে na shob somoy. Koto din ar wait korbe se? Eta niye matha kharap hoye jay majhe majhe.
Toh bhaira apnader poramorsho chai. Apnader moddhe ke ke BCS preparation er somoy biye korechen? Kemon experience chilo? Ar je bhaira ekhono korennni, apnara ki vabchen? Family pressure handle korchen kivabe? Ektu share koren please, amader moto confused manush der jonno onek help hobe. Jazakallah khair advance e.
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