Biye korte chaile ki ki bishoy matha rakhte hobe?

Assalamu alaikum bhailog, ami ekjon software developer, Rajshahi theke. Boyos 28 cholche, family theke pressure dite shuru koreche biye korar jonno. Ami nijeo vabchi je ei boyose settle hoye jaoa uchit. Kintu problem holo, ami bujhte parchi na ki ki bishoy dekhte hobe meye dekhte gele ba kothay kothay bolte hobe. Apnara jara already married, ektu experience share korben please? Salary expectations, family background, education level, ei sob niye ki khola khuli kotha bola uchit naki awkward lage? Ar arranged marriage te first meeting e ki ki proshno kora jayez, seta niye ektu confused achi. Inshallah sothik decision nite chai, tai apnader poramorsho chai.