Paribarer Chape Prem O Biye Niye Dilemma: Amar Kichu Kotha

Bhai ra, ajke ekta kotha share korte chai je niye onekdin dhore moner vitore chap chilo. Ashole prem o biye niye paribarik jhamela amader deshe onek common, kintu jodi nijer mathay porena tahole bujha jai na kotota pressure hoy. Ami Mymensingh er lok, ekhane paribarer decision onek strong, especially meye pete ba jamai pete shobai nijer pasanda chalate chay. Recent days e, 2025 er ei time e giyeo dekhi onek paribar old-school dharona dhore rakhe.

Ami ek meyer sathe almost tin bochor dhore relationship e achi, alhamdulillah amader bondhon ta valo chole ashchilo. Kintu biye niye kotha uthlei paribarer moddhe ekta tanatani hoye jay. Amar ma chai jate amra Dhaka te thaka ek paribar theke meye dekhi, karon naki tar majetor bondhu circle er sathe milbe. Ar baba abar chai jate amader samajik position maintain thake. Ei jinish gulo shunte shunte matha ghure jay bhai. Amar view ta hoilo, manush bhalole e biye kara uchit, location ba family status ektu niche upore thaka niye eto ulta palta expectation keno?

Meyeta, mashallah, onek shanto, namazi, porashunao bhalo, ar amar upor pura trust kore. O bar bar bole je inshallah jodi ami paribar ke bujhai, taile shob thik hoye jabe. Kintu amar nijer paribar er moddhe ei rigid attitude dekhe obak hoye jayi. Kichu din age ekta dinner table e kotha tulsi, tokhon straight bole dilo je "family background match kore na." Maner moddhe ekdom dhorjo chilo na. Kintu kono bapar e manusher character ba behaviour niye kotha holo na, shudhu background, area, ar relation circle niye tension.

Ektu shock lagleo try kortechi patiently handle korte. Ami ekhon duita side e balance rakhte try kortesi. Prem er respect ache, ar paribarer duty o ase. Amar plan holo onek calmly ar respectfully ma-baba ke bujhanor, jate tara bujhte pare je amra 2025 e achi, lokjon er bhitore onek change eshe geche. Love mane shudhu filmy emotion na, ulta stable biye charte gele mutual respect, shanti, Islamic values egula real factor. Bhai ra, apnara prayer rakhben jate inshallah ekdin sobai ek sathe boshe positive decision nite pari. Ami jani forum e onekei etar moto situation face kore, tai experience share kore bhalo laglo 😊