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Jajed Sheikh
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Biye planning korte giye pagol hoye gelam - ekta expat er golpo

Assalamu alaikum bhailog, apnara kemon achen? Amar naam Rafiq, ami Khulna theke, kintu last 8 years dhore UK te thaki. Eibar deshe giye biye korte chai, ar sei planning korte giye ki je obostha hoye geche seta share korte chaichi. Inshallah apnader kaje lagbe.

Shuru holo geche bochor theke. Ammar ma phone kore bollam beta, tomar baba ar ami ar koto din bekhe thakbo, ekta meye dekho. Ami to bollam theek ache ma, apnara dekhen. Ar sei theke ammar phone er bill double hoye geche bujhtei parchen. Protidin video call, meye dekhano, biodata pathano. Ammar office er colleagues hase ar bole tomar ma ar Grameenphone er business partnership ache naki. Khulna theke Dhaka, Chittagong, even Sylhet er meye dhora hocche. Ammar ma to ekta professional matchmaker hoye gechhen mashallah.

Planning er main problem holo budget ar expectation er moddhe gap. Ami UK te software engineer, income bhalo alhamdulillah, kintu deshe gele sob kichu er dam shune matha ghure jay. Gaye holud er decoration, biye er venue, catering, photographer sob miliye ekta small budget biye te o 15 lakh taka lagbe shunlam. Ammar baba bollen amar biye te 2 lakh taka khoroch hoyechilo. Ami bollam baba, sei somoy ar ekhon same na. Ekhon to Facebook live, drone shot, cinematic video sob lagbe. Noyto lokjon ki bolbe.

Arekta tension holo date fix kora. Ami to chhuti nite pari limited, office theke 3 week er beshi dibe na. Kintu deshe gele dekhi purohit bollen ei date bhalo na, oi date bhalo na. Ammar sashurir choice er date ar ammar chhuti er date match kore na. Shesh porjonto February er ekta date fix korlam, kintu ekhon flight ticket er dam dekhe chest pain hocche. Peak season bole double price.

Tahole bhailog, ei holo ammar biye planning er obostha. Ekhon bKash diye advance pathacchi venue er jonno, Daraz theke decoration er jinish order dicchi deshe pathate. Ammar suggestion holo apnara jodi expat holen ar biye plan koren, tahole kom pokkheo 6 months age theke shuru koren. Ar budget ta realistic rakhben, noyto stress e biye er age e hospital e jete hobe. Dua korben bhailog, inshallah shob thik hoye jabe. Apnader er experience thakle share koren, amake help hobe.

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