Aajke 21 November 2025 e boshesh e mone holo amar ei golpota forum e share kori. Mama ra, bhai ra, shotti kotha bolte ki, prem theke biye porjonto jatra ta amar jonne ekdom shohoj chilo na. Khulna te thaka manush hishebe amader shohorer ekta nijer rhythm ase, kintu paribarer expectational pressure onek shomoy ei rhythm ta pura ulta kore dey. Amar premika, jokhon amar shathe first time Pathao diye meet kore, tokhon thekei bujhsilam je meyetar moddhe ekta shanto, dignified vibe ase mashallah. Kintu paribar er kache she ke accept korano ta alada ekta challenge chilo.
Prothom prothom amar ma baba chinta korto je career ekhono stable na, biye niye eto taratari chinta kora uchit na. Amar baba toh ekdom straight forward, bollo je ajkal er din e job secure na, economy change hocche, tai decision nite hobe matha thanda rekhe. Ami tader kotha bujhchilam, kintu amar moner dikeo takano dorkar chilo. Alhamdulillah, amar biye nibar ichcha ekdom ekdiner emotion chilo na. Chinta korei chilo, plan korei chilo. Kintu ma baba jhamela start korlei tension automatic bariye day, bhai apnara o eta to jenen.
Tarpor shuru holo mama khalar committee meeting. Prottekjon alada advice diche. Keu bollo wait koro, keu bollo chere dao. Amar premika r family o chaichilo jate sob kichu bhalovabe, shantir shathe hoy. Ei du diker pressure ar modhye amar chinta chilo ekta balanced position e thaka. Ei samay ta te ami duibar Dhaka giye tar sate mukhomukhi kotha bollam. Chattogram e tar ekta training programme chhilo, tai amader meet up tao planning kore korte hoto. Ei rokom stress eo relation ta tikaye rakha shotti tough.
Finally, kichu shomoy pore ma baba bujhlo je amra serious, ebong amader chinta gulo realistic. Tara dhire dhire positive hoye gelo. Inshallah, biye niye aage baranor permission dilo. Ekhon pichu fire takale mone hoy, jodi sei shomoy strong thakte na partam, tahole relation ta hoyto ekhon ei jaygay thakto na. Paribarik pressure onek, but jara ek jon arek jon ke bhalo bose, tara jodi shanti, respect ar patience niye situation handle kore, taile ulta palta decision na niyeo bhalo kichu kora jay. Ajke ei golpota share korlam jate karo jodi ei rokom situation hoy, se bujhte pare je eita normal, ar patience thakle solution asbei inshallah.
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