Bhai ra, 17 July 2025 er ei gorom dupure boshe boshe khulna te cha khete khete mon holo biye niye amar kichu onubhuti share kori. Ami nijer biye hoye geche du bochor hoye gelo, alhamdulillah ekhon life ta onek stable lagche. Kintu surute shob kisu eto easy chilo na. Amader deshe biye mane ekta boro change, shudhu husband wife er moddhe noy, dui poribar, dui dhoroner chinta dhara, dui rokom life style shift hoye jay. Tai bhablam forum e ekta post dile hoyto karo help hobe, inshallah.
Biye er pore prothom jonoprosno hota pare compatibility. Ami bujhte perechilam je ekhon amader life e communication sabcheye important. Prothom prothom ekdin office theke fire jhamela, kichu chhoto kotha niye misunderstand, abar khub boro hoye uthto. Ekbar toh ami r wife dui jon e chupchap boshe chilam pura ek din. Tarpor boshe open kotha bolte giye realise korlam amra duijon e kichu insecurity carry kortesilam. Ei lesson ta amar kache shobcheye important je biye te shotti kotha bola, respectfully bola, mane rakhte hoy.
Ar ekta jinis, bhai ra, expectation kom r realistic rakha dorkar. Khulna te ami je rokom family environment e boro hoyecha, ami chailam wife er family tao oi style follow koruk, kintu seta to sobsomoy hoy na. Ektu somoy lagbe poriborton accept korte. Wife amake bolto je tumi jodi chaityo ami sekhchi, kintu tumi shob somoy dhore nao je ami tomader moto. Ektu moner flexibility rekhechi. Maashaallah tarpor theke shob kisu onek shoja hoye geche.
Daily life e aro ekta kotha, financial responsibility niye clear thaka. Bkash, Pathao, groceries, monthly bill, shob kichu niye ekta chhoto plan banano helpful. Ami wife ke jehetu job kore nah, tai amar income diye shob settle korte hoy. Kintu ami always take involve kori, jeno money related decision shudhu amar ektu ghore bose nite na hoy. Ete bonding o barse, r wife er obosthayo clear thake.
Shesh e ekta upodesh dei, biye holo partnership. Kono ekjon hero hoye thakar jinish na. Shob somoy ekjon arekjon ke support korbe, choto kothay appreciate korbe, r ekto maaf kore dite shikhte hobe. Life e ups and downs thakbei, kintu jodi duijon mile situation handle kora jai tahole relationship ta strong hoye uthbe, inshallah. Jei bhai ra biye korte chaitesen, amar dhoa roilo, Allah apnara jonno bhalo jorir byabostha kore diben, inshallah.
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