Bhai ra, ajke 24 October 2025 er ei post ta likhte bosha honestly amar jonno easy na, karon paribarik chinta ekhon amar dainandin jibon e ekta ongoing tension hoye geche. Mirpur e thakte thakte dekhsi je shobai prem biye niye kono na kono stress faced kore, kintu jokhon nijer mathay ashe tokhon bujha jay koto pressure actually handle korte hoy. Amar premika sathe charchar moddhe shob kichu alhamdulillah bhalo choltese, kintu paribarer shiddhanto, expectations ar samajik mental pressure milaite giye majhe majhe mone hoy ami khub ekta confused situation e pore jacci.
Ami honestly prem ta suru korsilam completely personal choice e, kono drama ba lafaz lafaz kichu chilo na. Kintu ekhon biye r kotha uthte parlo matha gorom hoye jay karon amader dujoner background e eto difference je shobai ek ek rokom comment kortese. Amar ma bolse je inshallah bhalo meye hole tader shathe ekdom kono problem nai, kintu abar mama-chacha ra bole je family compatibility na thakle future e problem hobe. Ei double standard advice gula mainly amar headspace khele dicche. Kichu relative to shudhu chai je biye ta family choice moto hok, jodio ami personally feel kori love r upor biye karar moddhe ekta mental satisfaction ase.
Ar ekta boro challenge holo economic expectation. Ajkal Dhaka te ekta biye complete korte giye ja khoroch lage sheta real life e tough. Amader paribar chay boro community centre te biye hok, proper decoration, full package programme etc., kintu amar mathay ekta simple biye r plan choltese. Amar premika o chay jate unnecessary khoroch na kori. Kintu paribarer jonno boro biye eta ekta prestige issue. Ei niye jokhon kotha boli tokhon misunderstandings create hoy. Amar abba bole je biye hocche ekbar ei life e, tai bhalo kore korte hobe. Ami bojhate chai je holo, but taka to akashe pore na. Ei niye mental stress onek.
Shesh porjonto bhai ra, ami ei forum e likhte eshe basically janaite chai je paribarik expectation ar personal choice er moddhe ekta healthy balance khub urgently darkar. Jara already biye korsen ba prem biye manage korsen apnara please experience share korun. Amar moto onekei eta niye struggle kore, but openly kotha bole na. Jodi apnara kichu upodesh dite paren tahole amar jonno helpful hobe inshallah. Ekta respectful solution chai jate duipokkho happy thake. Emoji ekta diye shesh kori đ
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