Biye niye family te tension, ki korbo bujhte parchi na

Assalamu Alaikum bhai ra, ekta bishoy niye khub tension e achi. Amader family te akta boro problem cholche biye niye. Ami ekjon meye ke bhalobashi, amra pray 3 bochhor dhore relationship e achi. Meye ta educated, bhalo family theke, kintu amader family tar community niye objection tulche. Baba ma bolchen "amader somaj e ki bolbe lok jon?" Ami bujhi tader chinta, kintu ei juger e eishob niye eto problem keno bujhte parchi na. Meye tar family o amake support korche, kintu amar family manche na. Ekhon ki korbo? Family er kotha shunbo naki nijer mon er kotha? Keu ki similar situation e chillen? Apnader suggestion dorkar bhai, please help.