Biye niye baba mar sathe kotha bolte parchhi na, ki korbo?

Assalamualaikum vai era, apnader ekta bishoy niye suggestion dorkar. Ami ekjon NGO worker, Nasirabad e thaki. Amar biye niye baba ma er sathe kono kotha bolte parchhi na. Tara already amar jonno patro dekhchen, kintu ami office e ek colleague ke bhalo bashi, she o amar feelings jane. Meye ta khub bhalo, educated, decent family theke. Problem holo amar baba ma chotobela theke nijeder poshondo er biye chaichen, ar ami jodi nijei kono meye dhori tahole tara khub hurt hoben. Ami nijeo bujhte parchhi na ki korbo, ekdike family er kotha, onno dike nijer feelings. Colleague ke biye korte chaile family ke kivabe convince korbo? Keu ki similar situation face korsen? Apnader kono advice thakle bolben please, khub confused achi.