Assalamu alaikum vai era, apnader kache ektu advice chai. Amar boyosh 28, Mymensingh e thaki ar Dhaka te ekta software company te chakri kori. Family theke biye er jonno onek pressure ashche, specially ammu protidin phone kore bolchen "tui kobe biye korbi, pashder barir chele to 2ta baccha hoye gelo." Kintu ami nijek mentally ready feel korchi na ekhono, career e settle hote chai aro koyekta bochor.
Problem holo, family ekta meye dekhe rekheche ja amar cousin er bondhu. Meye ta bhalo, educated, kintu ami to dekhi ni, kotha boli ni thik moto. Apnara ki mone koren arranged marriage e erokom pressure niye korle bhalo hoy? Ami chaichi at least 6 mash time nite, ektu jene bujhe, kintu family bolche "eto time lagbe keno, amra to dekhei bujhi." Ei generation gap ta onek koshto dey mone.
Apnader moddhe ja keu ki similar situation e chilen? Kivabe family ke bujhalen je apnar time dorkar? Inshallah solution pabo apnader kach theke. Ami family er against jete chai na, kintu jibon sathi choose korar decision ta rushed feel hok seta o chai na. Advice dile khushi hobo bhai era. đ
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