Assalamualaikum bhai log, ajke ektu personal experience share korte chai. Ami Middle East e thaki, Dhanmondi theke ashi. Amader generation er onek e biye niye rush kore, kintu ami bolbo ektu thamo. Ami nijeo ekbar vul korechi, mone kortam biye mane just ceremony ar bou ghore ante para. Kintu na bhai, onek kichu consider kora dorkar age thekei.
Family compatibility er kotha onek e bole, kintu financial planning niye keu kotha bole na. Ami dekhechi amader deshi community te onek couple struggle kore, kaaron tara shuru thekei plan koreni. Bou ke niye bidesh e ashben naki desh e thakben, bachcha hoile ki plan, ei shob niye khola kotha bola dorkar biye er agei. Lojja koren na, honest thakun. Alhamdulillah ami ekhon bujhi je communication ta shob cheye boro bishoy.
Ar ekta kotha bolbo, baba maa er choice ar nijer choice er moddhe balance rakhun. Amader culture e arranged marriage common, ar eta kharap na. Kintu apni nijeo janun ke apnar life partner hobe. Ek dui bar kotha bole biye kore felen na bhai, time nin. Inshallah apnader shobার biye te bhalo hobe, just rush korben na ar realistic expectation rakhben. Kono proshno thakle comment e janaben. 🤲
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