Assalamualaikum bhai o apura, kemon achen sobai? Ajke ektu personal topic niye kotha bolte chai. Relationship niye amader deshe khub kom khola mela kotha hoy, kintu ami mone kori ei bapare honest discussion dorkar. Amar nijer life e kisu experience ache, sheta share korte chai apnader shathe. Inshallah karo upokare ashbe.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Bhai, ami nija bhul kore shikhechi je kotha na bolle kichu hoy na. Amar ekta relationship e ami bhule gesilam je meye manush mind reader na, ar ami o na. Chup kore thakle problem solve hoy na, borong aro boro hoy. Apnara jodi kono bishoy niye upset thaken, sheta shanti kore bolen. Raag er mothe kotha bollen shob nosto hoye jabe. Ami ekhon shikhechi je - problem hole boshi, chai khao, thanda matha niye kotha bolo.
Dwitio bishoy holo respect ar trust. Dekhen bhai, Dhaka city te thaki amra, life onek hectic. Office theke bari ashte raat 9ta baje, traffic e pore thaki Mirpur er rashta te. Ei shomoy e jodi partner ke phone kore harass koren je "koi acho, kar shathe acho" - eta relationship er jonno poison. Trust chara relationship cholte pare na. Abar respect o dorkar - apnar partner er opinion ke value korun, tader career ke support korun. Meye hok ba chele hok, duijon e equal.
Tritio tip holo - small gestures matter. Bhai, boro boro gift er dorkar nai. Ami amar girlfriend ke majhe majhe just ekta chocolate ar flowers niye jai, ba suddenly boli "cholo fuchka khai Dhanmondi theke". Eta shune mone hote pare choto kotha, kintu ei choto choto jinish e relationship sweet thake. Anniversary te Gulshan er kono boro restaurant e jawar theke better holo regular days e ektu care dekhano. Pathao diye khana pathiye din jodi busy thaken, just ekta sweet message din - eta onek mane rakhe.
Shesh kotha, patience rakhen bhai. Kono relationship perfect na, ar perfect howar dorkar o nai. Jhogra hobe, misunderstanding hobe - eta normal. Kintu important holo je apnara duijon e relationship ta ke priority dichen kina. Ami nijeo onek bhul korechi, kintu alhamdulillah shikhte perechi. Marriage er age hok ba pore, ei basic jinish gulo mone rakhle inshallah shob thik thake. Apnader experience ki? Comment e janan! 😊
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